UTERUS DIDELPHYS HELP

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Reply Jessi
12:49 PM on June 17, 2016 
Thank you for having this page!!

I'm looking for information for my god daughter (she has this) She was told she should not try to have a baby. too high risk. Funny coming from a doctor who had to be told to "look again... are you sure" (Meaning the doctor missed it even after being asked to look for it... my god daughter made her "look again... are you sure?" and sure enough... doctor had and "AH HA" moment for sure!

If anyone out there can please reply to this post so I can share with her stories of success stories of having babies! I know it comes with a risk, but just giving up I wont let happen. (It broke her heart to hear she couldn't/shouldn't try to have a baby!) She's going to be a wonderful mom, and I so can't wait to tell her about this site!! THANK YOU Cat!
Reply Dancing Ice Princess
11:09 PM on March 26, 2016 
Hi, Cat. I am so happy that I found your website. It is nice to see that I am not the only one with this unique reproductive system. The doctors who diagnosed me, couldn't believe what they saw in the ultrasound. They had to repeat the procedure. I have read that there is a chance that one uterus is pregnant, and the other is having a period. Have you or anyone else had this? Please ping me. I would really like to know your input.
Reply Pippa Miller
2:40 PM on February 7, 2014 
Hello Cat...lovely website, I found it as I googled uterus didelphys. I wish doctors were more aware of this condition.I would love to chat with any of you 'one in a thousand people' to share experiences and compare notes :)
Reply Dancing Ice Princess
2:47 PM on February 22, 2013 
Hi, Cat.

I am 27 y/o, and found out that I have uterine didelphys last October 2012.

I just found this site as I re-read the information about my condition.

Thank you for creating this site. It makes me feel normal again. It's so nice to talk to people that have the same condition as me or know someone who has UD.

I will be scanning pictures of my ultrasound and send them to you. Hoping it could help educate people more.
Reply kylie heron
12:52 PM on April 18, 2012 
Hi Cat,

I discovered that I had UD 3 years ago and I have been so confused about it all. I have a really close family and loving partner but sometimes all I've wanted is to talk to someone who understands, especially now that I'm 3 month pregnant.

I found this site today and I felt like I'd finally found people who will understand where I'm coming from. Like yourself I've found the whole thing a very emotional sometimes horrible journey, but now I feel like there's some light at the end of the tunnel because I know now that I'm not on my own.

So I guess I'm just trying to say thank you for creating this site so all women with this condition know that they're not alone anymore.

I've introduced myself to the forum in 'intros' and also started a topic in the questions section. I've come to this site to talk and ask advise and I think I've found a place where I can talk and people will know what Im going through so again, thank you xxx
Reply Cat
5:08 PM on October 17, 2011 
ANGEL.

Stop replying. ANY man who has respectful intentions can join this site. We have male members. Stop talking about stretchmarks.

Finally, it is not an 'abnormality'.

Have some tact.
Goodbye.
Reply Angel
11:57 AM on October 17, 2011 
Miss Cat , I don't hardly even come to this site because of the same reasons you cited and I have not been disrespectull But If you are gonna be so particular about what men say on this site then why have a choice at all about having women AND men as members .. One more thing I know a secret to prevent Stretch Marks from having a baby BUT I guess you do not want me to share this secret with any members . I WAS going to go back and correct my "Vocabulary" but I am sorry I have been busy with my work. My Mother had 11 Children and not one single stretch mark ! I know cause she Bragged about and I did NOT believe her Until one night when she was Tippy on Dinner Wine she came into my bedroom to prove it , She let her pants down almost to her crotch and sure enough ,, NOT ONE STETCH MARK !! I WAS going to share HER Secret with all your members But I see that you are very impatient and very mean-hearted and I feel very offended . So go ahead and terminate me. You are NOT the only site that deals with this abnormality ! You have a "good day' too ! And contrary to you oppinion I AM a gentleman Miss Cat ! Good Bye and Enjoy the Stretchmarks !!
Reply Cat
11:24 AM on October 17, 2011 
Angel. I understand that marriage is of course a legitimate understanding between two people of love and respect.
Not an understanding that they have two vaginas.

Absolutely nobody will be using this site to try and hunt down a wife/romantic interest simply because they have two vaginas. If you happen to meet someone with Uterus Didelphys and you become partners, understand that with the apparent 'fantasy' of having two vaginal entrances, comes a great deal of heartache with having to live with a incredibly rare medical condition.

Although it is entirely possible to conceive and give birth, having a family is far more complex and on top of all of this, from the day she finds out, the woman will have to begin to deal with coming to terms that she is different to how she always thought she was.
It is a HUGE emotional journey and the fact that you may have two vaginas tends to sink to the bottom of your list of priorities. Some women with UD do not even have two vaginas, so your 'fantasy' would be irrelevant.

You have an incredibly twisted view on our condition. I warmly welcome any man or woman who has a partner/knows somebody with Uterus Didelphys and genuinely wants to find out more about it to help and understand.

However, I WILL NOT have anybody on this site who could in ANY way make my ladies feel uncomfortable.
You have conducted yourself in, quite frankly, a predatory manner and I feel highly uncomfortable allowing you to be on the site where people who need support can read your posts.

For that reason, I am afraid I will be removing you from the site due to your incorrect intentions.

I hope you find somebody to settle down and be happy with without having to rely on the anatomy of their genitalia very soon.

Thank you,
Cat.
Reply Angel
9:51 AM on October 17, 2011 
I agree and I Do appologise for using that snake term , Now as far as making myself available for marriage please forgive me but there are No Dating sites that list ladies with 2 vaginas ! But please Do consider that marriage IS a very legitimate and respectufull institution Miss Cat . Furthemore the mere Idea of being married to a lady with 2 vaginas is a Fantacy that would send the Hormone Levels of any man right through the roof !
And Furthermore Miss Cat that marriage offer also Most Respectfully applies to You IF you are single And if there is Chemistry and Compatibilty !! Sincerely and RESPECTFULLY Yours ,,, Angel G Flores PS. I thank you for your Kindness and your Almost Saintly Tolarance ! May God bless you and Please receive from me a very Loving Brotherly Kiss in the cheek (smile)
Reply Cat
8:59 AM on October 17, 2011 
ANGEL-

Thank you very much for your positive feedback, Angel.

However, I'm sure that many women would prefer that you did not use terms such as 'sneaky snake' and 'nookies'. Please maintain respect for what many women on this site are going through. It is a difficult and sensitive time for many and although I can see that your attitude is not a negative one, it most certainly not the most encouraging.

Also, may I remind you that this site is NOT a dating site.

Thank you.


I have posted this on your profile as well. Although it is not a bad thing to hear a positive response from a man about our condition, we would rather it came accross in a somewhat less sinister fashion. We are not here for your 'Ultimate Fantasy'.
If you continue to use this site for the wrong reasons in such a disrespectful manner, I will be forced to remove you as a member.
Reply Stacey
11:13 PM on August 2, 2011 
Hi Cat,
thanks for this amazing website. ive just recently been told that I have a uterus didelphys with a septum and this site and the fantastic member have helped me with getting some knowledge into this condition. It also gives me hope that i will one day beable to start a family :) keep up the great work... Stacey xoxox
Reply nikee
11:47 AM on September 15, 2010 
thanks phoebe.. and im hoping to be pregnant sooner...happy to have this website...
Reply Helen-Louise
8:04 AM on September 14, 2010 
Hi pheobe I'm so glad I found this website, I've jus found out I'm pregnant and been worri myself stupid, I'm not that far gone will feel better once I've seen the midwife x
Reply Mo
5:50 PM on July 28, 2010 
Thanks Pheobe, and thank you so much for starting this website. I only found out a few days ago about UD. I was going through a miscarriage at the same time so it was a lot to find out all at once. It's been so encouraging to hear the stories of other women, particularly those who have had children. It's given me some hope right when I needed it.
Reply ftonbabylove
9:25 PM on July 19, 2010 
Haha, TALK of number 2 only for now! I want close to 3 years between children but my husband would go for #2 now! Easy for them to say eh?!
Reply ftonbabylove
9:06 PM on July 19, 2010 
Thanks so much Phoebe and thanks again for starting this site! It is a fabulous resource! I am loving being a Mom! I'm sure I'll be updating when it comes time for #2!
Reply Laura
8:25 AM on January 14, 2010 
Hello Phoebe, I am from the UK too. Your description is nigh on identical to mine, I have for a long time thought I was a freak. I was diagnosed properly when I was 22 or 23, but knew I had something wrong from around 18 - they just took their time, after many ops to discover what it actually was. This site is amazing - thank you VERY much.

Laura
Reply Brianna Eileen
4:56 PM on December 30, 2009 
Thanks so much for making this site, Phoebe! I'm really impressed with it! Usually I come across a variety of mediocre sites, all missing organization. It's nice to see a high number of members here... You've given 66 women a safe and comfortable place to share feelings and worries. I loved reading your homepage and story. I felt like I wrote it myself. And I'm sure you'd agree that it's a wonderful feeling to know you're not the only one! :-)
Thanks again,
Bri
Reply SarahGotsIssues
11:29 AM on November 16, 2009 
Thank you! I'm so glad to have people to talk to who actually understand what I've been through and will continue to go through.
Reply alyssa
11:05 PM on November 13, 2009 
thanks phoebe.!
(:
i recently found out i had this,
and freaked!

:o idk if this is a bad thing to have?

but i think it's VERY rare? right?